ReDeFiNiNg SuCcEsS

SuCcEssS..

A crazy word.. which has the whole world flipping..
So how do you define this Insane thing!
I'd say..d Definition is clearly subjective..
It changes from one person to the other..n from one time to another..

I mean if you're a simple guy..Success would be getting a family and earning enough to keep it happy..

If you're ambitious..Success would be getting that promotion!

Then the overly desirous ones..won't even mind stepping on other's feet to achieve things(A pain i tell u!)

You could be following the trail of becoming some Einstein, you just need a breakthrough where your brain takes you into a zone where noone else has yet reached..

And the passionate ones..the ones who follow their dreams(d best kind!)..whose lives will only involve running after that single thing..
Among all these, we do still have the selfless kinds.. who'll devote themselves for the good of others..

But is this all you need to be Succesfull?

Though most people would directly relate being successful to earning loads of money..but the Perception changes from the time you start achieving what all was there on your list!

After a certain threshold of earning..the zest transforms..
You want to be rich..coz the money'll get you happiness..
This is what we think..right?

In that case the top rated psychologists won't end up earning a fortune from the most affluent ones, who after years of achieving find it hard to breathe on their own..

Ladies and gentlemen..
Just breathe in and breathe out..
Coz it is not really what you think it is..

Do what makes you happy today..coz tommorow that thing may not even appeal to you anymore..

So its better to do things right away and be happy about them today,rather than waiting for the right time,,..and ending up not really reaching that imaginary moment..

Drink, dance, talk, travel, breathe.. Do all what you really wanna do..

Happiness won't just come running to you, if you keep on waiting for it patiently..it too needs your efforts..
Procastinating.. is all we involve ourselves into..but once you really start working towards collecting the small gems of  sanctity..life will seem a lot easier than you thought..
Do not complicate..instead the way you make your life hell worrying about work and future..plan on achieving the short term goals of happiness..
Make sure you sleep content every night..by doing something that puts you at ease..
So today may be grab a scoop of ice cream.. and cool off..
Catch that new movie...drink it out with your favourite people..plan visits to the best of places..
take time out to breathe..to enjoy what u really like doing..

This time.. This age..These moments..These opportunities...They are never coming back...

Remember..Everything comes with an expiry..its better to make best use of things at the correct moment instead of saving them for the time..when they'll become Worthless!
 

This breeze will end up into heat tommorow...njoy it today..
Don't forget that you only live each day just once..
So do follow your long term plans...but make some space for achieving the litttle things.. that will make your journey fun and life worthwhile..

So get Up..and get going.. :)

LiFe..AnD iTs EdiTiNg...

LiFe...
It starts with a Child's loud cry..and everyone around rejoices..
It continues to grow without our will..
It makes us..It breaks us.. It controls us..n its goes outta control..
It teaches us..
To Fall and To Rise after the Fall..
To Cry and To laugh..
To care and To discard..
To share and To Divide..
To live and To Die..



But then..At the end, All we recollect are the Peaks..and Not d Plains..
We all go through this...We all ought to go through this..
Coz..If we don't walk enough..Lying down won't be so soothing either..
But then..Can we really decide the course..?
No No..i don't think that way either..
But what we can do about it is.. choosing our reactions..wisely enough to make the journey a Happy one..
No matter we can't write it..but No one stops us to edit the bits..
Its all a mind's game..
To be happy or to be sad..
the gains only make sense when we have seen the losses..
But then why not just laugh off at losses n move ahead..instead of wasting may be an hour..a day or may be an year.. lamenting over something which didn't even matter after a while..
Why not instead spend that time laughing n believing that d good is somewhere around waiting for us to open our arms and welcome it with a smile..
Of course we all wait for it.. some more than others.. but then instead of waiting for that time to come n make us smile..why not just fool it n smile already,..

Am sure the insecurity of us being happy will get it to us even sooner..
Anyway we all know that dis low phase is not gonna stay forever..den why at all let it ruin us for worse..
we have to fight back either today or tomorrow,,..
why not just give it in ts face n move ahead winking our way through it..
n that would be a story worth telling too..
Time never comes back...it'll keep moving ahead..
n we have to run in d race n emerge a winner..that's how we planned!
so lets not waste time n life thinking bout what could happen n what did not happen..
d last day anyway we are leaving it all here n the world only reminisces d good times..so why not leave plenty such moments behind..so that we die smiling without regrets and d world feels d pain of losing us instead ;)

Food for Soul!

 
Sometimes out of the blue, When we are sitting with ourselves, ignoring everything our routine is buzzing us to do, we get this feeling of uselessness lingering, telling us that we have wasted half the life being the insignificant one...When we always thought we were gonna make it someday!But then, half the life already elapsed with our failed efforts.
Ok! so some of us may be on the right track, but am discussing this with the ones, who once were the people, who always grew up with a thought of  being the 'One', but with the complexities of life, our dreams, our desires were blotted out..
I mean all this while we have been so busy trying to carve out a life, that we actually overlooked our own selves.
In the end of it, we just become chasers, the ones who are running so hard for things, that we have no spare time left behind to think over, what we really are.?

I am writing this just to prick my own soul, who's been spiritless for a while now.
But if the message reaches a number, then it will only invoke me to do something about it.
Its okay to make something for your living, but what about doing something for this poor soul, who's taken a backseat all this while..
I am a nobody who nurtured a dream to be 'Somebody', and today am just busy persuading myself to follow monotony, just to fit in the course of things which apparently, take us towards the conventional Goal of being 'Successful'.
But then, the power, the money, the victories won't have a meaning if we juggle to get more and more of what our kitty is already full with, only in the feat of getting something, which was missed somewhere down the lane.
So perhaps if we read this, we can take out a pity minute, and think what we really want.
I just did that, but unfortunately a minute was not enough!